Sometimes we rush around so much we forget to think about the things we are thankful for. I had noticed that our 11 year old was being critical of our 8 year old and wanted to bring it to his attention. Last night as I tucked them in to bed I asked them to finish these simple statements: they took turns quietly thinking about what they would say.
It makes me so proud when my brother ____
I feel the best about myself when my brother ______
There are many things I love about my brother ____, but it makes me smile when he …
After 5 phrases each, the boys hugged, said I love you to each other and I could feel they really sensed that they were glad that they had each other in their lives. I added a quick statement from my heart, “it makes me so proud when the two of you respect and appreciate each other,” kissed them goodnight and went on my way.
by Mandy Ellen
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